Archive for May, 2010

Wait! Hold the Phone!

It seems like the suggested guidelines for raising your child are constantly changing.  How is one supposed to keep up with the latest research and new studies?  I still consider my oldest child a baby, she’s three and a half.  But a lot of what I was told while raising her during her infancy and toddlerhood has gone right out the window.  When is the American Academy of Pediatrics going to make up their minds?  I know what you’re saying… “They have to change their suggested guidelines based on new research.”  While I appreciate that, it makes it hard that I have to keep changing the things that I was doing with my first daughter now that I’m raising a second one three years later.  I mean, the first one turned out ok, so do I really need to change my ways?

Case in point – Three years ago when it became time to introduce Brinley to solid foods, her pediatrician strongly suggested that I start with rice cereal, then move on to oatmeal, and then barley.  From there he suggested starting fruits and veggies, one at a time, leaving a few days in between to make note of any reactions.  I followed protocol to a tee.  I was also instructed that under no circumstance was I to give her nuts of any sort, eggs, citrus, honey or shell fish before she turned two years old.  Again, I followed what I was told.

Fast forward to about seven months ago…  I’m at Nora’s four month well visit with the same pediatrician and the topic of starting solids comes up.  He asks me when I’m planning to start and I tell him probably in a month or so.  He asks what I plan to start her with and I say rice cereal.  He let’s me know that I may start with any of the grains and go from there.  Alright, a little different than with Brinley but nothing too different.  Same rules applied for the fruits and veggies, one at a time with a few days in between. Then he lays it on me, “Once she get’s the hang of eating, go ahead and offer her anything that you happen to be eating.”  I, thinking I’m all smart, say, “Right, but make sure not to give her nuts, shell fish, citrus, honey or eggs until she’s two.”  He says, “No, no.  You can go ahead and give her all of that stuff, except for the honey, right away.  There’s no need to wait.  The earlier you expose her to those things the less likely she will be to develop an allergy.”

Wait!  Hold the phone! You mean I should be giving her peanut butter and scrambled eggs and shrimp?  Before she’s two?  Well, apparently, yes I should.  According to the AAP, “Current evidence is insufficient to document a significant protective effect of maternal dietary restrictions during pregnancy or lactation. Nor is there sufficient evidence that any dietary intervention after 4-6 months of age prevents allergic disease. This includes delaying the introduction of complementary foods.”

So, Nora has dined on everything thus far from peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, to tuna fish, to strawberries.   It’s a good thing that this new research came about because Nora is a human garbage disposal.  She will and does eat anything.  So if I’m eating it, you better believe that some of it is in her mouth as well.  Since PB&J is pretty much a staple in my life (I ate it for lunch every single day of my grammar school career) it’s a good thing that I don’t have to try to keep it away from her.  One of the only foods that she doesn’t like so far is pasta.  Must be too bland for her.  Among her favorites are taco beef, black olives, Mexican rice, and baked beans.  Could she be any more different from her big sister who eats maybe four things total?

Looking Back a Year

We celebrated Nora’s First Birthday on Saturday.  It’s hard to believe that she is a year old already.  It truly is unreal how quickly the time passes.  Nora has filled our lives with so much joy.  She is such a character and watching her grow and change every day is just awesome.  Looking back at some of her very first pictures as a newborn, I am amazed at all of the changes she has gone through.

Right after she was born, Nora gave us quite a scare in the hospital.  Scott and I were just about to (attempt to) settle down for the night when he looked in her little glass crib and noticed that she was very red.  She seemed to be struggling to breathe and eventually coughed up quite a bit of mucous.  We paged the nurses and within seconds a group of them came rushing in to see what was the matter.  They ended up taking Nora to the nursery to check her out a bit deeper.  She appeared to be fine and the chalked the mucous up to her being birthed so fast (5 minutes, 3 pushes) and not having a chance to get a good squeeze on her way through.  Well, within a few minutes she had another repeat episode.  This time it landed her a spot in the NICU.  Luckily for us, I gave birth in a hospital fully equipped with a NICU and Nora didn’t have to be transferred to another hospital.

To make a really long, emotional roller coaster of a story, short, Nora spent 9 nights in the NICU as a result of having an immature breathing pattern and being unable to keep her oxygen saturation stable.  Of course we were nervous, scared, heartbroken, you name it, about having to have her there, but we realized how much worse it could have been.  It was so hard seeing some of the other babies that were in the NICU and knowing that Nora would be fine but just needed a little more time to mature.

The most difficult parts of having Nora in the NICU were traveling to and from the hospital on a daily basis, maintaining exclusive breast milk feeding, and trying to take care of two children that were in two different places.  Somehow I succeeded at doing it but not without the help of an extremely amazing husband and truly supportive family members and friends.  You see, our house was 45 minutes away from the hospital (without traffic).  Once I was discharge and went home, I would wake up every morning, spend a few hours with Brinley and then drive in to be with Nora.  While I was in the hospital with her, I would nurse her, hold her, take pictures of her, watch her sleep, and cry.  I kept my sanity by going on walks around the city while she napped and by being blessed with some of the most amazing nurses ever!  I’d spend from 11am until 11pm daily at the hospital.  I’d nurse her while I was there and then when I went home, I set an alarm clock for every 2 hours so that I could pump and bring the milk to the nurses who would use it to feed her when I wasn’t there.  I am extremely proud of the fact that during her 10 day stay in the NICU she was fed breast milk exclusively!

It’s so crazy how fast the past year has gone.  Nora has been such a joy.  Her smile can light up a room and her hugs just make me melt.  She’s walking and “talking” and trying really hard to keep up with all of the things that her big sister is doing.  I can’t imagine my life without her and I am truly blessed to have TWO such wonderful, beautiful, amazing daughters in my life!

Happy Birthday, Nora Jade!

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